TMI Tuesday #154

1. What do you feel is the difference between sexy and erotic? The outfit I wore for SE on the cruise...sexy. The sound the fabric made when he tore it off me...erotic.

2. Do you believe there is one right person (i.e. soul mate) for you out there in the world, or that there can be many different potential mates that you could live blissfully with? I think we are all too complex for one person to be our only soul mate for life. I think there are many different potential mates.

3. Do you need to hear "I love you" or similar words on a regular basis from your partner? It's weird as a kid I never heard the words and I make a point to say them to my sons on a regular basis because I did miss hearing it as a kid. But I don't have the same need in romantic relationships. For some reason I don't find the words as authentic romantically as they are when you say them to your child.

4. What feeling do you have the most difficulty expressing? I am not very good at expressing feelings, opinions yes. How I feel not so much. So it's hard to just pick one. I have difficulty expressing most emotions, well maybe anger, I don't seem to have a problem expressing that.

5. What is worse - physical, mental or cyber cheating? Ugh the cheating question there always seems to be one. I don't find cheating a terrible ill of morality. Deception and lies would hurt me more and it really wouldn't matter what vehicle was used to achieve it, physical, mental, or cyber.

Bonus (as in optional): The Kinsey scale attempts to describe a person's sexual history or episodes of their sexual activity at a given time. It uses a scale from 0, meaning exclusively heterosexual, to 6, meaning exclusively homosexual. Where are you - TODAY - on the scale? My gut instinct is to go with 3 because I am always in the middle. And intellectually that is true. I don't really think hetero or homo I feel much more pansexual about things. BUT when I try to envision sexual gratification without a guy it's just hard to imagine. So that's 100% hetero isn't it...But if the question was overall I would say 3 but since it's a sexual history/activity I have to go with 0.

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Not the best quality photo ever. It's a photo SE took with my cell phone of the outfit I bought for the cruise. Tom it's not scratch and sniff but SE didn't seem to mind ;)

Happy HNT.

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The rear view SE seems to love so much but between you and me I honestly don't get. My stomach and abs now those I am proud of that cottage cheese back there? Not so much...But hey he seems to like it so I am obliged to send him a thank you note with view he likes best right?

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SE bought this for me to wear when I am in Charleston. What do you think?

Happy HNT.

TMI Tuesday #151

1. Describe the perfect date for YOURSELF... what you would enjoy most. I had the perfect date with SE Labor Day weekend. We went out to a friends for a party and afterwards we sat up and watched this old Clint Eastwood movie we both liked as kids drank wine and ate cookies in bed. What could be better?

2. Do you lean more toward being submissive or dominant? I am submissive but I have been accused of being passive aggressive at times and I probably can be. I'll have to submit to your judgment on that ;)

3. What do you usually wear to bed? Depends. If it's just me pajama bottoms and a tank top.

4. Have you ever seen a counselor? Yes, when Corey was about 7 years old I was close to a nervous breakdown I think. But I never told anyone I went to see her. It was like the biggest failure to me that I couldn't handle things.

5. Lights on or off? Lights on, unless I was asleep at first then lights off.

Bonus (as in optional): Bonus: Have you or a partner ever faked an orgasm? I can't speak for a partner, I don't think I have had one fake it but you never know. I faked when I was really young just starting out but not much even then. I was never a fan of sex without enjoying it. I always had the mettle I needed to just say I wasn't in the mood if I wasn't.

7 Things

This was shamelessly stolen from Fusion

7 things I plan to do before I die

1. Travel to Kenya, Rome, and Madrid.
2. Have a close relationship with my mom.
3. Go back to school and get a degree.
4. Travel the U.S. (especially the west coast).
5. Finish remodeling my house.
6. manage a long term polymorous relationship (s)
7. Volunteer (some kind of Angelina Jolie mission where I save a small village in Africa or something)...

7 things I can do

1. Stay in the moment
2. make mac n cheese like my grandmother's
3. multi-task
4. I am good with house plants
5. Excellent memory almost photographic at times.
6. make people feel better feel loved and cared for
7. debate ;)

7 things I cannot do

1. Swim
2. Float
3. hold a grudge
4. play an instrument
5. dance
6. Speak another language
7. lower my pride

7 things that attract me to the opposite sex

1. strength
2. passion
3. sense of humor
4. Manners
5. Personality
6. Self confidence
7. nice smile

7 things I say most often

1. Fuck
2. so whatever
3. seriously?
4. No worries
5. it is what it is
6. wow
7. Really?

7 celebrity crushes

1. LL Cool J
2. Pierce Brosnan
3. Morris Chestnut
4. Madeline Stowe
5. Anderson Cooper
6. Rob Brown
7. Ashley Judd

7 people who need to do this

1. need?
2. seriously?
3. no worries
4. so whatever
5. fuck
6. it is what it is
7. wow

LOL..

TMI Tuesday #150

1. When was the last time someone hit on you? What went down? I am pretty oblivious to that sort of thing. Someone has to come right out and say "hey I am interested in you" for me to think they are being anything more than friendly or chatty. So I honestly can't remember the last time I was hit on. I probably walked away thinking what an interesting guy never considering he was trying to get my phone number or something.

2. If you were single and could be with any one person, who would it be (thinking singer/actor or someone famous here, but whatever)? I really hate this question and it seems to always turn up on these things. How can I fantasize about Denzel Washington or whomever? They are famous people playing a role. Do I say hey I would want to be with the character he played in Mighty Quinn? I guess if I am trying to deem someone partner worthy based on how they present themselves in public and their sex appeal I would have to go with Chuck D from Public Enemy. He is black and sometimes angry but always intelligent and well spoken. He is a black man who would never sell out for money or fame. He will never apologize for the anger in his voice or try to water down who he is to make others feel comfortable. But he still demands the respect of whomever he is speaking with because his intelligence can't be denied.

3. Have you ever done anything sexual in your office or your place of employment? No, I won't ever mix my paycheck with my personal life. Too messy.

4. Do you apologize when you make a mistake? How do you react when someone calls you out? I apologize no one can be right all of the time especially me. And I appreciate when I am called out. I always feel the person must really care about me and trust that I can handle criticism to tell me if I have stepped over the line.

5. Top or bottom? Yes :) and side...

Bonus (as in optional): How old were you when you first had a willing sexual experience? A willing sexual experience? Hmm...That is a tough question because when I was in my teen stage there was a lot of the no, no, yes, yes behavior. But then boys were pretty aggressive always bugging me trying to get into my pants. I guess I was 20 or 21 before the sexual experience was about me really wanting sex instead of about the guy.